{"id":309,"date":"2016-09-06T18:27:18","date_gmt":"2016-09-06T18:27:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/crawlingout.net\/?p=309"},"modified":"2017-05-22T03:06:44","modified_gmt":"2017-05-22T03:06:44","slug":"help-for-male-survivors","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/crawlingout.net\/index.php\/2016\/09\/06\/help-for-male-survivors\/","title":{"rendered":"Help For Male Survivors"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-314 alignright\" src=\"http:\/\/crawlingout.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/abused-man-free-pic-300x208.jpg\" alt=\"abused man free pic\" width=\"300\" height=\"208\" srcset=\"https:\/\/crawlingout.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/abused-man-free-pic-300x208.jpg 300w, https:\/\/crawlingout.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/abused-man-free-pic-768x534.jpg 768w, https:\/\/crawlingout.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/abused-man-free-pic.jpg 960w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>I was thinking about my presentation, and decided to gather some information especially designed for male survivors of domestic abuse. I was pleased to find some very good websites for men. I thought for today I would focus on sharing some \u00a0affirmations I found on <a href=\"http:\/\/www.malesurvivor.org\/index.php\">www.malesurvivor.org<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"> YOU ARE NOT ALONE<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>10 Daily Affirmations for Male Survivors\u00a0 by Dr. Howard Fradkin<\/strong><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Recovery is absolutely possible and achievable for me.<\/li>\n<li>I will practice being disloyal to dysfunction and loyal to functionality.<\/li>\n<li>I give myself permission to connect to loving, affirmative, strong, sensitive, accepting men and women in my community.<\/li>\n<li>I release and forgive myself for any responsibility I have accepted in the past for my abuse.<\/li>\n<li>The abuser[s] from the past chose to hurt me. I will stop repeating the lie that it just happened to me.<\/li>\n<li>Offering myself daily compassion is necessary for my healing growth.<\/li>\n<li>I commit to connecting to the boy inside me today so we can play, laugh, and experience joy together, even if just for a minute or two.<\/li>\n<li>I believe deep inside me I possess the ability to face the truth of my abuse and to learn to use new tools for healing.<\/li>\n<li>I have the right and the ability to speak the truth of my abuse and deserve to be heard, understood, believed and supported.<\/li>\n<li>Feeling is healing. As I heal, I develop the ability to experience a wider range of emotions to enhance my health and connections to others.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>I hope these \u00a0affirmations begin to change your thought process, because I am often heard saying &#8220;what you think about you bring about.&#8221; I also believe change your thoughts and your life will follow.<\/p>\n<p>Please visit <a href=\"http:\/\/caseymorley.com\/resources\/\">www.caseymorley.com<\/a> for more resources.<\/p>\n<p>Hugs,<\/p>\n<p>Casey<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I was thinking about my presentation, and decided to gather some information especially designed for male survivors of domestic abuse. I was pleased to find some very good websites for men. I thought for today I would focus on sharing some \u00a0affirmations I found on www.malesurvivor.org \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 YOU ARE NOT ALONE 10 Daily Affirmations for &hellip; <\/p>\n<p><a class=\"more-link block-button\" href=\"https:\/\/crawlingout.net\/index.php\/2016\/09\/06\/help-for-male-survivors\/\">Continue reading &raquo;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-309","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/crawlingout.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/309","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/crawlingout.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/crawlingout.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/crawlingout.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/crawlingout.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=309"}],"version-history":[{"count":13,"href":"https:\/\/crawlingout.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/309\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":390,"href":"https:\/\/crawlingout.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/309\/revisions\/390"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/crawlingout.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=309"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/crawlingout.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=309"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/crawlingout.net\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=309"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}